“I will tell you a secret today”, I was so eager to hear what the secret was all about. These were the words I read from a text sent to me from a person that I haven’t spoken for so long that I no longer aware of his existence. so he wrote “your natural hair was the very thing that made me love you,”.what went on in my mind after reading was i am not my hair, next day I decided to allow the world to see this new post on my face with a new look. After a serious journey of my 4C hair type to end.Effortlessly I wanted to lose sight about hair and looks just to focus more on this human being in me..

Therefore, this time it’s not about anyone but myself, I valued so much of my outside appearance and forgot that I matter and so much value than what my outside appearance has to showcase. “Live and Learn child” . Now I don’t hear those primal words about my hair or my looks because now I say the words to myself. Yes, I speak to this new look that even more brave and courageous than ever, I speak to her in the most possible tones that she has to get it in her mind, she has an amazing heart and that is what I love most about her.She has this beautiful smile and her look is the perfect thing I long to see every day when she wakes up, the best thing and perfect yet in her own flaws. I rejoice in her imperfections and enjoy the journey we take on embracing new things. I love everything about her, from flexibility to her novicity of the chages. I love her, and I love loving her

This love and braveness that she reflects out there, that exactly will come to HER in abundance.The love that you give yourself and the excitement of you waking up every morning seeing your beautiful self and warm smile that makes your eyes watery, yet you don’t tear up will all come back to you as well in abundance. All that you give is all that you will receive, be that which you want from now on.

‘Thank you’